最高级的情商：说话要“软”，做事要“硬”！
<p>说话要软，春风化雨，润物无声，柔软的语言话语像清风可以化解矛盾增进情感。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>做事要硬，沉稳有力，不骄不躁，坚定的前进步伐能够事半功倍。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>第一，说话要“软”<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>1、语气不对，说话白费。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>说话要软，首先要注意自己说话的语气。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>生活中有很多人本是好心，但话一出口就变了味，惹人生气，这就是说话的语气出了问题。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>曾国藩早年在京做官期间，盛气凌人，语气狂妄自大；这种语气让他失去了不少朋友，也树立了很多敌人，给自己的官场之路添了不少堵。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>好好说话，态度真诚一点，语气柔软一点。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>2、措辞要柔，关系不愁。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>说话要软，其次还要注意自己的措辞表达。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>表达要具有弹性，说话不是做数学题，不能直来直去。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>曾国藩做人“外圆内方”，这种外圆内方并非天生；<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>早年间由于说话措辞不当，曾国藩吃了不少亏；<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>吃亏之后，曾国藩开始反思自己，逐渐形成了说话过脑，体贴他人的性格特点。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>曾国藩曾告诫子女说话不可全凭性情，要考虑他人。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>说话要软，别逞口舌之快，控制好自己的情绪，换位思考体谅别人。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>第二，做事要“硬”<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>能力没有，不能长久。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>做事要硬，就是要有真本领。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>现在很多人追求稳定的工作，其实没有真正稳定的工作，没有始终不变的地位、职位。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>只有能力稳定，有了能力才能有长远的未来。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>一个人没有能力，只会耍花架子，嘴上说的天花乱坠，说的再漂亮也干不成大事。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>曾国藩在最开始就不断积累自己的能力，通过读书、向他人学习提高自己的能力；<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>正是因为自身本领过硬才能建立起湘军，才能成为清末四大名臣。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>第三，原则底线，牢记心间。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>曾国藩在官场如鱼得水，但他并不是毫无原则的，他始终秉持做人的底线。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>在日常生活中做事要“心狠”，人太善良有时可能也是一种恶。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>不要太“圣母”，要明辨是非，有自己的主见。<br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/><br style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-family: Arial, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, WenQuanYi Micro Hei, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; white-space: normal; background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"/>做事要硬，有能力，有原则，有底线。</p><link rel="stylesheet" href="http://hbrdcm.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_t77" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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