年轻人的“三无”婚礼其实应有尽有……
<p style="margin-right: 8px;margin-bottom: 0px;margin-left: 8px;line-height: 1.75em;text-indent: 0em;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br/></p><section data-mpa-template="t" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section mpa-from-tpl="t"><section mpa-from-tpl="t"><section mpa-from-tpl="t"><section data-role="paragraph" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section data-id="93671" mpa-from-tpl="t"><section mpa-from-tpl="t"><section mpa-from-tpl="t"><p style="margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"><span style="font-size: 17px;background-color: rgb(192, 0, 0);color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><strong mpa-from-tpl="t"> </strong><strong mpa-from-tpl="t">青观察 </strong></span></p></section></section></section></section></section></section></section></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">当代婚礼正在被减号袭击。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">咔嚓，减去“接亲”环节。接着，大嗓门的司仪消失了。谢绝伴郎伴娘，删掉冗长仪式，洞房更是不可能闹的。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">发射“减号”的年轻新人，把老气又套路的婚礼，砍成理想的形状，然后在社交媒体调侃道：“全网期待的‘三无’婚礼来了！” </span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">不算啥，有人马上晒出了“四无”，让婚礼再瘦一圈。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">仪式感跟着缩水了吗？想必没有，年轻的新人们算得明明白白，拿减号换加号。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p><br/></p><section style="text-align: center;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;"></section><section style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);">甘肃省庆阳市一对新人在婚礼现场展示才艺表演。中青报·中青网记者 焦敏龙/摄</span></section><p><br/></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(86, 86, 86);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;text-indent: 2em;">租个豪车队充门面，性价比太低，不如打飞的去旅行。天不亮就起床，太苦，打工人甜蜜的日子，必须匹配一个自然醒。堵门的形式主义，可以换成好友留念的合影；敬酒的老规矩，改成草坪上的游戏。不需要搜刮煽情故事催泪，也不拿宾客开低俗玩笑，有人给父母写了真诚的信，有人只请至交好友到场，他们拒绝被不熟的人围观。<br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“每个人都玩儿得很开心！”</span></strong></span><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">一个刚办了“三无”婚礼的姑娘得意地说。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">我过去参加过一些婚礼，听一样的司仪串词，吃一样的红烧肘子，看新娘在红喜服与白纱裙之间切换，新郎举着盛满水的酒盅，一桌一桌说场面话。传统习俗里的规矩，插上商业文明的翅膀，混搭西方宗教的风格，再捎上人情世故的往来，这些共同构成了前些年最普遍的婚礼形式。也没什么不好，反正大家都差不多，礼堂塑料花换成鲜花，加一万元，其实远看没区别。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这几年，婚礼真变样了。有朋友找我当司仪，说不喜欢市场感，要故事感，要独一无二的串词文本。有亲戚家，小两口都是商业人才，把婚礼的宣誓环节改成签一份爱情“合同”，以示契约精神。最近的一次，几个月前，我去同事老家参加他的婚礼。仪式在老屋旁的草地上举办，新郎新娘自己主持，满座的记者编辑，把婚礼玩成了“新闻发布会”。传统吗？极传统，乡里乡亲吃了三天大席。浪漫吗？极浪漫，每一朵开在鱼塘边的小花都是早有预谋。小孩子看皮影戏，抢糖吃。天气也给力，下了半个月雨，婚礼当天放晴。</span><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(192, 0, 0);">那一次，我相信绝大多数宾客都跟我一样，真的见证了爱情，也感觉被厚待。</span></strong></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">还有好多年轻人，干脆一梭子减号打光，要么旅行结婚，简单吃个饭了事，要么索性不办了，把“三无”变成“全无”。什么婚礼“四大金刚”，一点都没考虑，省心、省钱、省力。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“礼”这个字，对中国人是大事情，凝结着郑重的心意和敬重的态度。婚没个礼，好似不够严肃。我甚至听过一种说法，婚礼就得大操大办，投入那么大，那么多人都见证了，这个婚就不容易散。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">这未免太坑，两个人的关系，不仅要被经济成本束缚，还要被群众眼光束缚。一次婚礼，双重绑架。被家暴时想想当初的婚礼？被丧偶式育儿时想想当初的婚礼？别想婚礼了，赶紧想想法律吧。当下的年轻人够累了，别人的成绩，别人的学历，别人的房子，别人的婚礼……也都别参考了，</span><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“三无”其实应有尽有，有爱情，有认真，有祝福，还有价值观的强力表达。</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“不说嫁娶”“不用父母的钱”“不让父亲交接女儿”“不从娘家到婆家”……更多的“无”意味着更多的“有”，有平等，有独立，有新的家庭结构，有性价比，有对个体情感、社交方式的尊重。</span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><br/></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">一位网友说，“亲戚不喜欢但是我喜欢的‘三无婚礼’，爽！”这句感叹带着反叛传统成功的意味，但在我看来，这恰是对婚礼本质的回归。晒“三无婚礼”的年轻人，评论区一片“完美”字样，还有人说：</span><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);"><strong><span style="color: rgb(192, 0, 0);font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">“生活是你的，不用按别人的期待走流程。”</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: justify;margin-left: 8px;margin-right: 8px;text-indent: 2em;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;color: rgb(86, 86, 86);letter-spacing: normal;font-family: Helvetica 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