妈妈，我焦虑时，请这样爱我
<p style="text-align: center;" data-mpa-powered-by="yiban.io"><br/></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">面对孩子的成长教育</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">不少父母会产生焦虑紧张的情绪</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">从而导致孩子也变得容易焦虑紧张</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">孩子不会因为一点焦虑<br/></span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">就发展成焦虑症</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">但是有过度、过多、频繁的焦虑感受时</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;font-size: 15px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;">是需要父母及时给予支持的</span></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><strong style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">01</span></strong><br/></p><p style="outline: 0px;font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, Helvetica Neue, PingFang SC, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei UI, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;color: rgb(34, 34, 34);background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);text-align: center;visibility: visible;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 16px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;"><strong><span style="font-size: 16px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><br/></span></strong></span></p><p></p><section data-author="Wxeditor"><section data-author="Wxeditor"><article data-author="Wxeditor"><section data-wxsrc="https://www.hbrdcm.com/plugin.php?id=wcn_editor:wx_img&url=http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/v4vz52CcB13JzTTXXg3mC439fK28gxRKQEvNNkqibcmShoYnBKmicvseMpwbL3575pAHiakhp9npPSRyrXXhtlYEQ/0"><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">02</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>03</strong></span></p><section style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></section><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>04</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 24px;"><strong><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);">05</span></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>06</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>07</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>08</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>09</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong>10</strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);font-size: 24px;"><strong><br/></strong></span></p><p style="text-align: center;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"></p><p style="text-align: left;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;">P.S.对孩子的<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 12px;letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-align: left;text-wrap: wrap;">鼓励、支持表达形式多样，</span>上图所述做法仅供家长参考。</span><br/></p><section style="text-align: left;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(214, 168, 65);"><strong>写在后面：</strong></span></section><section style="text-align: left;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">常常发现一些孩子，他们只允许自己考前几名，如果没做到，就会焦虑不安。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">看起来，是因为孩子有高标准，实则是因为，<strong>孩子的高标准没有弹性。</strong></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;">没有弹性，就会容易绷断。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">所以，当孩子感到焦虑、已经出现过高要求的苗头时，父母要及时地给予孩子帮助。</span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></section><section style="letter-spacing: 0.578px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);outline: 0px;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">当然，更重要是平时要多给孩子支持，尤其是孩子做错事情的时候、失败的时候，更需要父母的支持。</span></section><section style="text-align: left;margin: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><br/></section><section style="text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Microsoft YaHei;font-size: 11pt;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">可能很多父母会问：孩子做错事情，不表扬不批评，那还能怎么做？</span></section><section style="text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Microsoft YaHei;font-size: 11pt;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 1.75em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br/></span></section><p style="text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Microsoft YaHei;font-size: 11pt;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 2em;"><span style="outline: 0px;font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">如果能很好地运用鼓励，你会发现，<strong>想让孩子达到你的期待，<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);font-family: Helvetica Neue, Helvetica, Hiragino Sans GB, Microsoft YaHei, Arial, sans-serif;font-size: 15px;letter-spacing: 0.5px;text-wrap: wrap;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);">相比表扬和批评，</span>不如鼓励孩子</strong>，通过正向引导，让TA慢慢成为那个有能力把事情做对、最好的孩子！</span></p><p style="text-wrap: wrap;outline: 0px;letter-spacing: 0.544px;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: Microsoft YaHei;font-size: 11pt;margin-bottom: 0px;line-height: 2em;">来源：青春十堰</p></section></article></section></section><p></p><link rel="stylesheet" href="//www.hbrdcm.com/source/plugin/wcn_editor/public/wcn_editor_fit.css?v134_FoG" id="wcn_editor_css"/>
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